5 WAYS TO NATURALLY INDUCE LABOR

11224741_10206608765801416_3816183014202982893_nI have a friend who just recently gave birth, but a week before and after her due date had passed, she asked if I knew of any methods to naturally induce labor as she was ready for the baby to ‘come out’. She was scheduled to be medically induced a week after we spoke, but she didn’t want to wait and at the same time wanted it to happen on its own.  She mentioned she had been walking tons for the past week and cleaning and just staying active overall.  I told her to do some light squats and hip circles on a yoga ball, etc…She said she had done all of that, but would try the squats.  She later asked me if I had ever heard of anyone drinking Castor Oil or Karo Syrup to induce labor…I said no, but that I would find out.

As someone who had a midwife during my pregnancy, I am all for promoting the most natural ways to give birth rather than it being medically induced.  So, I went on a quest to find out from other moms what they’ve done to naturally induce labor. I put up a post asking moms the question and was immediately showered with answers with things that they had done themselves that worked for them.  So for those of you preggos out there who are past their dues dates and are looking for ways to naturally induce labor, here are some of the most common answers I received to my question.

  1. SEX – Have lots of sex
  2. Foot Massage/ Pedicure/Acupuncture/Pre-natal massage/Warm Bath
  3. Walk, walk and walk… a lot (squats and pelvic circles on yoga ball are good too)
  4. Foods that can help: Eat Eggplant Parmesan (CLICK HERE FOR RECIPE), Pineapple, Spicy Food, Chinese Food.
  5. Let the baby come out when it wants to (it won’t be in there forever LOL)

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Although, many of the women were against drinking Castor Oil as it causes extreme abdominal pain, diarrhea and meconium (having the baby poop inside; which of course would not be a good thing), some of the women had actually used Castor Oil and claimed that it worked for them (as long as you don’t abuse the dosage).  Of course this post is for informational purposes only and in no way it is to be taken literal.  I am not a professional in this field and your decision to try any of these suggestions would your own responsibility.

I thought it was very interesting finding out what other women claimed help induce their labor process.  Some of the woman said that after doing one or two of the above they were in labor just a few hours later.

So if you are in this situation and are looking for a natural way to induce labor, I think the 5 suggestions in this post are fun to try and non-threatening.

If you do try any of these, I would love to hear if they worked.

Wishing you a happy and healthy labor and baby.

Xoxo Kari
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Candy Tactics your kids will love

I’ve never been one to have a sweet-tooth. In fact I could go without candy and dessert without ever needing a ‘fix’ – bottom line I have no need for candy or sweets of any kind. However, other circumstances have made me Love candy in ways you couldn’t imagine… Wait maybe you can imagine.

I have compiled the top 5 reasons why I love candy…can you relate? 

1. Potty-Training – I used the candy tactic on my toddler when she was potty training. One jelly bean for each time she went to the bathroom. It worked wonders! She was fully potty trained before 2.5 years old.

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2. Eat your food and you get dessert – my little one is not necessarily a ‘picky’ eater. She pretty much eats everything, including fruits and veggies, but she can be an “annoying” eater, as in she plays with her food and takes forever to finish.  That’s when I bring out the candy or dessert tactic… “You can have dessert when you finish all of your food”

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3. Clean-up time bribing – Getting your child to clean up after themselves can be challenging at times…But not when you bring out the candy tactic. “I’ll give you a lollipop after you pick up all of your toys” – works like a charm. 

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4. Behave in public – She’s normally a really well behaved kid so I don’t use this very often, but when she decides she wants to act out – I definitely gotta pull out the candy card. 

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5. Bedtime – This one is very rare but has worked.  “Close your eyes and go sleepy time, when you wake up I’ll take you to get some frozen yogurt. I did it last night…she woke up asking for her frozen yogurt. Lol

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These tactics have worked out great! Probably because she has a sweet tooth lol. I do not give her candy every time I use the tactic though… It’s just a way to get her to do something and then I entertain her until she forgets about it. As parents we gotta figure out what works best for each of us because if we don’t find alternatives that work we can easily go crazy. Lol 

I hope you find my candy tactics helpful. what do you do to get your child to perform a task? Share your tactics. I may need to switch up mine here and there.” 🙂

Xoxo 

Kari 

Raising highly grounded children

Raising highly grounded, intelligent, stable and conscious children I believe is what we as parents strive for on a daily basis.  Teaching them what is right and wrong, how to make good choices in life as they grow, ect., while still making sure they have their independence intact and a ‘good head on their shoulders’.

As the parent of a very active, smart, independent 3 year old girl, it is very important for us to keep our cool when she’s making us crazy.  While we still reprimand her when necessary it is also extremely important for us to provide a balanced upbringing in order so that she may continue to develop all of her positive attributes in a healthy environment.

As the adults in the house, as well as the core of making sure things are balanced, we must be in tune with ourselves, at peace, present, healthy and happy so that we can provide these same things to our child(ren).  As a person I am also striving to be better in every aspect of the word so that I can provide a better me to my little one.

Since children do as they see, we must do great so they see great and in turn do great as well.  I recently came across this YouTube video of Dr. Joe Dispenza – On Raising Inspired Children and I just think it is fabulous.  I couldn’t be happier than to share all of the great teachings this video has to offer.  I think it would be of great benefit to every parent to listen to it and take whatever works for you and your child(ren).

Take a look and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Enjoy

xoxo,

Kari

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We Love Sesame Place!

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What a fun-filled weekend this past weekend was!  Lots of celebrations…I love celebrations…I am happy to say that there’s always so much love surrounding them and good vibrations emanating from all over the place.  We are truly blessed. Among all of the celebrations I attended to this weekend, one in particular was Sesame Place’s Autism Awareness Day!

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Sesame Place is a kid-friendly amusement-water park geared toward children ages 2-13.  It has a variety of rides which kids can ride by themselves or accompanied by an adult if the child is too little.  They are located in PA about an hour and 20 minutes from Northern NJ and officially opens for the season this coming weekend.

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A friend of mine gave us tickets to attend this special event and we couldn’t have been more thrilled to go. Since we know how much our little one L O V E S Sesame Street, we knew this would be a major event for her.  She was certainly over the moon with excitement once we arrived. I wish you guys could have seen the expressions on her face. She was in heaven! This certainly was the perfect amusement park, for the best little girl. Later in the day, one of my sisters and two little brothers came to the park to join in on the fun which made the day even more special.

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It was a sun-filled Sunday, just the perfect day to be outdoors. As I looked around, I noticed every child was truly enjoying this magical day.  It was great to see all of those little smiling faces, running around, going on the rides, eating candy, meeting all of the characters and more.  Everything was so perfect! My little one finally got to go on rides for her size… and she was having a blast.

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We got to sit and watch Elmo Rocks Concert which was fantastic.  She was totally enjoying and rocking to the beats of Elmo, Cookie Monster and friends. She also got to say hi to Elmo and take pictures with Cookie Monster and Abby…her favorite characters!  And to top it off, she got to see ALL of the characters during their wonderful 20 minutes closing parade.   She truly had the time of her life.  We can’t wait to bring her again once the water rides open…that will be another amazing experience.

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This day was just so wonderful overall.  Seeing her beautiful face lit up throughout the entire day we knew we made the right choice when we accepted those tickets.   If you are close to PA or willing to take an hour plus ride, I would suggest you take the kids. While we were there we ate at the Cookie Monster Cafe where each kid got to take home a super cute Cookie Monster Plate and Drink Cup as a souvenir.   My only suggestions would be to try to eat a good meal before arriving at the park. The food there is expensive and not the healthiest.  Other than that I can assure you, your children will have a great time!

There is a Groupon deal going on right now. Go HERE to view.

Hope you enjoy looking at the pictures of our Sesame Place Adventure!

Xoxo

Kari

Our Healing Journey-Hooray for a solution to the problem!

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This is super exciting news as we finally got an answer to what the problem is and can now really get Jaxson on the right track! We went to the neurotologist (not to be confused with neurologist) this past Monday for the glycerin dehydration test I mentioned in my previous post, in order to determine if Jaxson’s balance issue is due to an imbalance of fluid in the inner ear. Indeed, this is the issue with his balance and seems to have been all along. The testing was 3 hours long and consisted of a few preliminary balance/coordination examinations, however, the main assessment of his balance that was used throughout the 3 hours at different times, entailed having Jaxson place his feet together while standing and closing his eyes. Jaxson immediately wobbles and falls to one side or the other while doing this normally.

After the preliminary assessment, Jaxson was then given the glycerin solution which is essentially just sugar, a really sweet drink. Jaxson was disgusted by it and I almost had to force him to take it. The glycerin kicks in and his balance is retested in the same manner. Wow! Significant improvement in balance this time around (about an hour post ingestion). However we wait another 45 minutes before his balance is retested for a third time while the glycerin is still active, and voila! I’m going to have to call the results a miracle! Jaxson, in the midst of crying hysterically because he was so thirsty (you can tell by the picture how miserable he was during the testing) was able to stay fully balanced with his eyes closed for almost a minute I would say. We would have kept him in that position longer but his pleading for water got so annoying; all I remember was the doctor and nurse looked at each other with a smile. They smiled because they had figured out and could now confirm that the issue is an imbalance of the inner ear fluid. In medical terms this condition is called endolymphatic hydrops. Basically we don’t know the cause as it seems 50% of the cases are caused by trauma to the inner ear and the other 50% (which involves Ménière’s disease if I’m not mistaken) is sporadic (pretty much meaning, there is no known cause). Nevertheless, I’ll take a wild guess and point to my friend Gentamicin as the main culprit once again.

Again, all blood work we have done has come back negative/normal which is great but if my memory serves me correctly I remember the nurse from one of the many specialists’ offices we took him to mention that the electrolytes were a little low but most likely because he had not had any water or food before the blood work which makes sense, however, reading about endolymphatic hydrops just last night, I’m thinking I’m going to have to look into this a little further.

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Perhaps the hydrops have nothing to do with the Gentamicin damage although we know the hearing loss was definitely a secondary effect of same specially considering the fact that Jaxson passed his newborn hearing screen before he left the hospital as a newborn, needless to say the neurotologist concurred and even wrote in his notes that the Gentamicin most probably caused the hearing loss.

Now, as for the hydrops, and back to the point I was trying to make above regarding the possible slight imbalance in the electrolytes (I will call the doctor’s office to find out the exact results regarding the electrolytes. I know it was something very slight as she only briefly mentioned it in passing and automatically attributed it to him having fasted for the blood work, but now I’m curious and need all the facts so I will call them today to get all the details and will inform them of the results from the neurotologist’s testing).

More importantly, what I’m going to do is compile all the different tests and information I’ve gathered since we have an appointment with a well-known integrative, holistic medicine doctor in the area in February. I’m thinking with the indicated solution the neurotologist recommended which is to give Jaxson a diuretic called Lasix to restore his balance, and with the proper diet to restore electrolytes, etc that may be low in his body, through the help of the holistic Doctor and her in-house nutritionist, we got this! Jaxson may become superman out of all of this.

I’m just so grateful there is a solution to the imbalance. Thank you so much GOD/UNIVERSE!

I will update you all on how he does as soon as he begins his Lasix treatment and anything additional. Jaxson is also currently receiving physical therapy outside of school and will begin occupational therapy as well to fully catch him up and strengthen his balance and coordination which I suspect will significantly improve with the lasix alone which may in turn shorten the terms of the therapies in general.

Thank you for reading!

Much Love,

Belmax Saki

Our Healing Journey-He is genetically perfect!

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So, Jaxson’s neurologist literally just called me about 30 minutes ago to inform me that the spine MRI came back normal, for the exception of the cervical part of the spine which revealed the same enhancements as the brain MRI done in November; because the spinal cord and brain stem are all connected, specifically to this part of the spine (cervical/neck) as per my understanding, this makes absolute sense. I may not be remembering all the details correctly but the bottom line is that the spine MRI was normal.

The neurologist would like to see Jaxson in one month and may request another brain MRI to see if there are any changes, including the resolution of these cranial nerve enhancements. He mentioned that the new MRI may show no more enhancements as these enhancements could have possibly been the result of his body fighting something at the time and not indicative of any disease or anything alarming.

Jaxson has gone to an innumerous amount of specialists the past 1.5 months and has had a remarkable amount of blood work done, including all the genetic testing I previously mentioned, which in the back of my head I was so afraid about. I’m not sure why I was so afraid as I am a huge proponent of epigenetics (have read a couple of Dr. Bruce Lipton’s books on this). Nevertheless, all genetic/blood work came back normal Thank God! Jaxson is genetically perfect!!!

All this new information however, brings me back to my battle with Gentamicin. To be honest, I have not researched Gentamicin extensively and I’ve only come to know about the evils of this antibiotic. I will be fair though and will look up the “pros” of this crazy antibiotic that hospitals love to administer, and which is known to cause sensorineural hearing loss and imbalance, etc., by affecting the 8th cranial nerve/vestibulocochlear system. Mind you, the main enhancements that Jaxson’ s MRI revealed, were to the 7th and 8th cranial nerves which not surprisingly are side by side and which share information to the best of my knowledge; hence if one nerve is affected I’m pretty sure it could impact the other one as well.

Finally, in the span of the past 1.5 months, one of the specialists Jaxson saw was the neurotologist which I mentioned we would be seeing in my previous post, and who seemed surprised and was not happy about the fact that Jaxson had been given Gentamicin as a newborn. The neurotologist did some preliminary testing, including spinning Jaxson in a chair, which did reveal that his vestibular system is compromised which we already know is the main contributor to his lack of sustained balance. Anyway, the neurotologist suspects the issue may be an imbalance of the inner-ear fluid which he will determine through a three hour long test where Jaxson will be given some glycerin. I need to find out the exact details of what this testing entails and what our next options are if this is in fact the issue.

Thank you so much for caring about Jaxson and sending your positive thoughts our way. We will get to the bottom of it and Jaxson is doing great. Getting smarter, stronger, and bigger by the day.

Wishing you all an Amazing New Year!!!

Much Love, Belmax

Christmas Craft Ideas For The Kids

As Christmas Day approaches we are all running around getting some last minute gifts and thinking of ideas on how we’ll entertain on Christmas morning, especially the kids.

We will be making a delicious breakfast for the our families, opening gifts and doing some arts and crafts with the children. I went out and got some arts and crafts kits that will surely keep the kids entertained and happy. We’ll be making a gingerbread house, decorating some sugar cookies and making Christmas ornaments.

As I was doing some web browsing I did come across some pretty awesome ideas I might be incorporating into our arts and crafts time. Check them out! Click on the picture to get the instructions.

 PAPER PLATES SANTA

This is a super cute paper plate Santa…It looks fun and easy to do with the kids and doesn’t require too many items.

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PAPER BAG RUDOLPH THE RED NOSE REINDEER

What’s Santa without his favorite Reindeer..Rudolph! This is a super cute – easy to make paper bag Reindeer.

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WOODEN STICKS AND COTTON BALLS SNOWFLAKES

Super super super easy to make Snowflakes! Can’t go wrong with these.

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WINDOW CHRISTMAS TREES

Kid’s love to be part of everything….this is a great way to have them make them that will be part of the Christmas decorations. How fun!!

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We hope these arts and crafts ideas make your Christmas Day with the kids an easy, fun and happy one!

We wish you all a wonderful Holiday Season!

Merry Christmas!

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