My daughter was born with a lot of hair so washing her hair has been part of bath-time since her first bath. I have gone a day or two here and there without washing her hair mainly because it is either too cold or too late and I don’t want her to go to bed with wet hair, but for the most part her hair has to be washed since there’s always some sort of food particle stuck in it.
Her hair never fell off like it sometimes happens in babies at around 4 months of age; it has just kept growing ever since she was born. With her hair now passed her mid-back at 2 years and 3 months, washing it was becoming a complete struggle. She totally freaks out when water falls on her face so tackling hair-washing on a two year old without getting water on her face while she’s freaking out and crying and keeping her head down is nearly impossible. I’m sure you get the idea, not fun.
Well I don’t have that problem anymore, I can honestly say I have conquered hair-washing my daughter’s hair…and all I did was talk to her. I showed her how mommy has to put her head back when washing her own hair and I asked her if she would try doing the same. I literally got down, grabbed her little face and said “you don’t have to cry mamita, all you need to do is put your head back for a little bit while mommy pours water on your head, can you try that – just for a little bit? I promise not to get water on your face” and almost crying she said in her little voice, “ok mommy.” So she put her head back and I poured the water; she only did it for like 5 seconds and said “all done mommy, all done”, but it worked! I was so happy! I congratulated her on doing a great job and gave her a high five.
The next time around I said, “now mamita we have to wash your hair, do you remember what mommy taught you about putting your head back?” she said yes and did it; this time a little longer. The same thing happened for the third time around.
I’m so happy and proud of my little girl and all it took was a little patience and talking to her.
As a parent it is easy to get frustrated when your little one isn’t listening or paying attention to your request. The funny thing is that they are listening; they just refuse to acknowledge you, especially if you are yelling or they feel forced. So next time you are having trouble getting your toddler to do or try something new, try talking to him/her and try listening to them as well, it might just work wonders.